martes, 6 de diciembre de 2011

TRUE LOVE

What seems to be difficult today to keep a couple. Is it because we intend to require others to be as we want and we can not accept others as they are and fight less?
Why people get tired of being with someone you think will be different with someone else? This shows an excess of optimism.
The problem is never the person with whom we interact but how we relate.
Love at first sight is not accidental that we through the heart from side to side, but it is something you can learn. It is not about finding the perfect person, but a skill to be acquired.
Immature young people experience love as mature people learn to love, because the emotional maturity is characterized by emotional stability.
Love is not easy because it requires a sense in advance a personal development a provision allowing for others only selfless love, with an attitude of humility, confidence and strong will.
They say that whoever is able to understand another also means to know and understand love.
Erich Fromm says that love is an art that requires knowledge and effort.
Most believe in romantic love and concern is finding someone to love them instead of finding someone to love, because that gives true love, not possessive, you also receive genuine love.
It can happen to anyone the miracle of falling in love madly, but that feeling of unity and intimacy only by its very nature is short-lived, until you get to know well and realize that not tolerated, bored, and disillusioned.
Nobody can believe that true love is an art to be learned, because some are confused and looking for a partner as anyone looking for an apartment or car, that is, that will produce the feeling of having done a good business and the couple is be an asset in a market where most everything is bought and sold.
In such cases it is a doomed enterprise, more emphatic than in any other activity and more difficult to assess.
In life today all study and work to get a title or a promotion at work, but nobody is willing to learn to love. In this area the most plays by ear.
"It's not good that man should be alone" says the Bible, written by scholars of antiquity inspired by divine revelation. But now the man prefers the isolation and the cult of the body, giving up the chance to share your life with someone significant.
Many try to escape their loneliness through drugs or alcohol but the effects disappear when the empty feeling tends to flare up.
He boasts of his individualism but in reality has lost its individuality and has become an automaton.
Women, in their desire to be equal to men have lost their femininity and thus also the possibility of erotic love with the opposite sex, because they are now identical.
True love means union and mature, while retaining both their own individuality. Love is possible only in freedom, envy, jealousy, ambition, passion and love are not a passion is an attitude, a human, not compulsive. There is a sudden outburst but a permanent disposition is more about giving than receiving.
And give not mean giving up or deprived of something, sacrifice and impoverished, but is the most beautiful expression of power that produces happiness and vitality.
Although it is not only material things to give each other but also be very vitality, which is alive in each, their joy, their interest, understanding, knowledge, humor, sadness and all expressions of each one.
Something produced in the act of giving love and more love.

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